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Sunday, June 5, 2011

Wedding in Zambia

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The wedding preparations included obtaining  goats and  chickens , making the  Monkoyo (a  drink fermented for 2 days from roots)

My Bamayo and mother of the bride, Vainess.  Since she is a widow, she had to arrange all the bride price, training of the bride, and wedding food herself.  There were a number of negotiating parties who came to her house to ask for her daughter and to arrange the conditions.  

Some of the bridal party carrying their gifts on their heads.  This was a traditional wedding so there was no church service.  A truck arrived the night before around 11 pm carrying the young people of the groom's village.They sang and danced and eventually kidnapped the bride who left under a chitenge (cloth) behind her grandmother, who was the accomplice.  Together, they were driven back to the groom's village and kept in a separate house.  The grandmother was a  chaparone to ensure the separation.  The bride cooked and cleaned for her in-laws after they paid her.

Here is a guest dancing up to the gift table to leave his present  and explain how to use it.  The wedding party are seated in front and dressed in western clothes.


Now the bride and groom cut the cake.  There are no pictures of the bride's face.  She is trained to look down the entire time as a good wife should always be submissive.

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